This is for the girls who want love — a partner, a teammate, a companion.
If
you’re perfectly happy being single, pop off. But this one might not be for you.
Let’s just get this out of the way: I don’t understand why it’s frowned upon to admit you want a partner. It doesn’t make you less of a woman, or a person. Aren’t we wired to “mate” as humans anyway? Animal instincts and all that jazz?
I’m a hopeless romantic at heart, but also a realist with extremely high standards. Even in my lowest moments, I never lost sight of my worth — which is important to note for later.
I know confidence can be learned and built, but one of the best things my parents ever did was instill it in me early. So even when I lost myself for a few years, and my internal dialogue got really dark, deep down I still believed it would all work out. I knew I wouldn’t settle.
So… how did I go from rock bottom to meeting the LOML?
Let’s get into it — and I genuinely believe that if you apply some of these steps, you’ll be one step closer to meeting your person.
If you love routine, hate change, or resist risk… this might scare you. Do it scared anyway.
Let’s begin.
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